tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17601510181811207262024-03-05T23:00:10.161-05:00Dirty Thoughts: A Gardening LifeReveries of a Solitary GardenerMSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.comBlogger247125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-80042726099735025612014-04-04T10:42:00.002-04:002014-04-04T10:47:45.770-04:00When Your Therapy is Sh-t...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Therapy comes in many forms.<br />
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Black leather chaise lounges and bearded, cigar-smoking psychologists may be somewhat passe, but the paid professional who listens, advises, suggests, (gently) prods, and tells you your hour is up is not.<br />
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Noticeably, however, this once private, near-monologue of disclosures and discoveries has become very public: too public, perhaps. In our pill-popping, post-it on Facebook, Tweet-it-on-Twitter, snap-it-on-your-mobile, expose-all society, "therapy" is everywhere--and with it, all those private affairs. We post in public venues to share and celebrate our accomplishments, and yes, our woes and irritations; call it Facebook-therapy. We justify disclosing our (in)discretions on various grounds: empowering
others; being honest; taking responsibility to be healthy and whole
(once again). But I think most people post to receive some kind of affirmation--and this, in my humble, non-professional opinion, perhaps leads us to become too addicted to affirmation. What happens when we don't receive it? <a href="http://www.plosone.org/article/info:doi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0069841" target="_blank">A recent study has linked lower self-esteem</a> to Facebook use.<br />
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Advances in biomedical technology and drug therapy have greatly democratized therapy: a panoply of spring pastel-colored pills abound! Pink pills for anxiety, little blue ones for depression, yellow for OCD. Happiness has become yet another commodity--one to be taken with a full glass of water! (With all due respect to those for whom drug therapy offers substantial relief and, it must be said, the opportunity to <i>live</i>.) <br />
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This commodification of happiness appears in other ways. Our wellness-conscious society has democratized not-so-new types of therapy: yoga, meditation, zumba, and exercise writ large have become our barometers of not simply physical but mental health as well. I admit that ten days away from running (bum knee) and the gym and I have descended into a pit of woe and misery.<br />
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That populist instrument--the ubiquitous mobile--has made finding people who readily talk about their therapy / psychotherapy/ couple's counseling / addictions both shocking and shockingly easy. Yesterday as I made my way to the front garden, I heard a male voice--disembodied at first--discussing to a friend the fact that his girlfriend kicked him out after weeks of tension, argument, and suspicion. He was feeling blue, he told his friend, but was trying to get from day to day by overloading himself with work obligations. I tried not to listen, but his booming, baritone voice made it difficult not to hear. A man suddenly appeared: a workman, across the street. He looked at me. I panicked and looked at the ground. He lowered his voice out of embarrassment, perhaps, or a sudden need for privacy. But then, as if I did not exist, he resumed speaking in his need-to-be-heard-in-this-large-and-crowded-lecture-hall-voice roughly 45 seconds later--about his degree of complicity in the doomed relationship. (Hey, at least he was mature enough to admit his own shortcomings.)<br />
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Like this workman, I, too, was in desperate need of therapy earlier this week, weighed down with concerns of various sorts. So I took a few mental health days and wallowed in my sh-t.<br />
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No, not metaphorical sh-t. Actual cow sh-t.<br />
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Yes, dear reader: I played in the garden (I despise that phrase, "work in the garden," for it signifies something that gardening decidedly is not) and, in doing so, discovered that playing in cow sh-t is an excellent form of therapy.<br />
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Winter <b><i>finally </i></b>and rapidly retreated in the mid-Atlantic and this week we were treated to warm temperatures and bountiful sun. I had to capitalize on the moment before more plants began to poke up from the ground and so laid 1,200 pounds of composted cow manure in the front sun and rear shade gardens.<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><b>By the way:</b><b> </b><u><b>NEVER</b></u> apply fresh cow manure to your garden beds: the nitrogen will burn your plants and their roots--in other words, it will kill them--and will impede or even prevent seed germination.</span> You MUST ONLY use composted cow manure, which will slowly release nitrogen, phosphorus, and potassium down into the soil. And if you are applying the manure to already planted beds, either top-dress the beds, or, if you are <u>certain</u> you won't disturb tender plant roots, then you may work the manure into the soil.<br />
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I know there are metaphors galore regarding surface sh-t and deep sh-t, but I leave those to you.<br />
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For now, I simply relish in the fact of feeling better, more grounded, as I now stand ankle deep in cow sh-t.</div>
MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-85888119285663736492014-03-21T08:17:00.004-04:002014-03-22T18:42:01.721-04:00A Long Gardening Life<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Two great gardeners died on Monday, 17 March 2014.<br />
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<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/18/us/rachel-mellon-heiress-known-for-garden-designs-is-dead-at-103.html" target="_blank">Mrs. Rachel Mellon died at her estate in Virginia</a> at the age of 103. Though many may not have heard of her, I am certain that all Americans know of her most famous work: the redesign of the White House Rose Garden.<br />
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Mrs. Mellon (a.k.a. Bunny) possessed tremendous botanical prowess and had an eye for grand and poignant design. But her considerable wealth, which placed her in the social circles of people like the Kennedys and Queen Elizabeth, among other social, political, and cultural luminaries, no doubt aided in the achievement of her fame. If wealth catapulted Bunny's horticultural 'career' into the stratosphere, then writing and weekly gardening columns allowed other eventually renowned gardeners (such as Christopher Lloyd, Gertrude Jekyll, Vita Sackville-West, and Katharine White--E.B.'s wife for those in the know) to achieve their national and international stature.<br />
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They represent one class of gardeners, if I can so boldly categorize gardeners as belonging to one of two groups. The fame of other gardeners--most gardeners, like my uncle, Jim VanDervort and his wife, my Aunt Annie--is more local, bred within the communities within which they lived. This is not to suggest that their abilities are lesser than the famous gardeners who cultivate, and cultivated, this earth. Not in the least. In fact, I tend to think their gardens are more aesthetically experimental, more personal and thus more accessible intellectually and artistically because they are more intimate, unhampered as it were by committees and commissions and the need to tame expansive swaths of land into gardens for hordes of visitors to enjoy.<br />
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Jim and Aunt Annie's gardens--an assortment of brilliant and sublime spaces such as the long border, the Greco-Roman shade garden, the cookhouse beds, the savannah behind the barn--illustrate an aesthetic appreciation for life and for the natural world that filtered through their lives. Anyone who has visited their house knows this.<br />
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I always enjoyed wandering their house, asking Jim 'who painted that?' or 'is that English or Dutch?', or simply commenting on the beauty of a porcelain bowl or a table, which, I knew, would always elicit a story. Hopefully they did not think of me as the nosy nephew; I asked because I wanted to hear the stories which Jim would almost always begin with a sleight of hand, and one particular utterance: 'oh, that old thing...'<br />
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Far from being dismissive, 'that old thing' exuded playful familiarity--akin to things old married couples say to each other, I imagine. It prefaced the telling of a history, a sharing, a knowledge of provenance mixed with personal anecdote related to the object's acquisition. 'That old thing', I have come to realize in the days since his passing, summarized what Jim taught and what he offered to me: an appreciation of the past and, through gardening, an appreciation of the present.<br />
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He taught me--they taught me--through example, to be a steward of the past by caring for the myriad of old things that survive the ages, despite my klutziness and the fact that I once ran through a screen door and bent its frame, at considerable cost to them. Still, they have entrusted valuable items to my care.<br />
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And he taught me--they taught me--to be a steward of this earth by gardening. If I owe my gardening life to Aunt Annie who taught me, at the age of six, how to properly dig a hole for a new plant and water it, and how to be attuned to the needs of particular plants and how to situate them in ways to create rich tapestries of color and composition, then both Aunt Annie and Jim cultivated that growing passion into my adulthood.<br />
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If I owe my appreciation for 'old things' to both of them, then it is only through the example of their care of things that I learned what appreciation as a practice and what being a steward really mean.<br />
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<i>In Memoriam</i></div>
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<i>James K. VanDervort </i></div>
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<i>(18 September 1932 - 17 March 2014) </i></div>
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MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-14519316026119892152013-11-18T13:45:00.002-05:002013-11-18T16:20:44.733-05:00On Silences and Absences<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzIHXEOl7HElDxTCZuCgIHmscNEZdDLsWGRomx_6Ks_ixPSAYdyhDZNqNGIvozn3zphAtuWDOf2MRDeOTPsilGeO5jcxOewv0UoJerwgu3fMIZE9WjR-WqSLJ8bONhNs8L8CQbHfJOOACE/s1600/Tulips.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzIHXEOl7HElDxTCZuCgIHmscNEZdDLsWGRomx_6Ks_ixPSAYdyhDZNqNGIvozn3zphAtuWDOf2MRDeOTPsilGeO5jcxOewv0UoJerwgu3fMIZE9WjR-WqSLJ8bONhNs8L8CQbHfJOOACE/s400/Tulips.jpg" width="300" /></a>There is no reason why a garden cannot be both beautiful and functional. The late and widely acclaimed British gardener Rosemary Verey designed some fabulous <i>potagers</i>, including her own at <a href="http://www.barnsleyhouse.com/gardens" target="_blank">Barnsley House</a> in the Cotswalds. <br />
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My garden contains rosemary, lavender, chives, occasionally sage and basil, very little mint (given Gramsci's "affection" for it), and the errant perilla which the Japanese call shiso, all of which are interspersed among flowers and foliage. While the front sun garden would be the perfect space to plant an assortment of vegetables, I cannot do so since my garden occasionally attracts those who prefer five-finger discounts on flowers. I can only imagine how much attention the spectacle of unguarded vegetables would garner!<br />
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This summer, we decided to venture into fruit and I planted a Brown Turkey Fig Tree in the rear garden. Given last week's flirtation with below-freezing evening temperatures, I struggled with the issue of protecting it during its first year. In the end, I decided a little extra investment in the fig tree might actually be in my (and its) best interest. While at the store, however, I happened upon the remaining stock of bulbs, and purchased 15 Allium 'Purple Sensation', a very large and reputedly 'most purple' of the purple alliums.<br />
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I decided on a spot and began digging, only to discover a clump of (now I remember) Dutch red with blue veining tulips. Oops.<br />
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I decided on another perfect spot and begin digging, only to violate yet another clump of tulip bulbs--this time the double reds. Damn it.<br />
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At first irritated with my own faulty memory, I quickly took pride in the fact that the bulbs appeared to be 'perennializing' (I hesitate to write 'naturalize', because that implies a permanence for which the tulip is not known, unlike say, daffodils). If you plant the tulip bulb deeply enough--I plant mine 8-10 inches below ground, several inches below the recommended depth--I find that the tulip will continue to flower for several years even if this year (the third after <a href="http://dirtythoughtsagardeninglife.blogspot.com/2010_07_01_archive.html" target="_blank">my private tulip mania in Amsterdam</a>), some of the tulips produced fewer flowers than the previous two years. But I owe that to increased shading by larger, neighboring plants, which means it is time to move them. <br />
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Still: the presence of those little "bulbettes" made me understand that something profound was happening beyond view.<br />
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Much of our lives is measured by activity and visibility. We must be attuned to presence, not absence, the visible, not the invisible. Yet we pay indirect homage to silences and absences in the form of "catching up" periodically with friends--not a charitable or obligatory act, but one born out of the pleasures of human contact. True: our quotidian lives occupy us; geography imposes; work and home-life demand. But always, in the moment of contact--whether in the form of an email or a Facebook posting/bilateral connection, a phone call or a good old fashioned hand-written letter or card, the heart flutters, the spirit soars, and we feel at one with the world, or at least our small portion of it, again, precisely because we are connected to it.<br />
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That's how I felt when I saw the tulip bulbs and their babes.<br />
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Of course, they may not have felt the same towards me, jostling them from their procreative, subterranean bliss. But that's life: sometimes we just don't connect, sometimes we are simply "off." Sometimes we unwittingly slip, inadvertently dig up the tulips, and damage the relationship. In those instances, time and space perform the work of repair. Or at least we hope, especially when our spade slices through the largest of the bulbs.<br />
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Sometimes we grow out of each other, though in those instances the feeling is usually mutual, even if we don't always have the honesty to admit it. Tulips sometimes tire of us and the conditions we provide (conditions over which we usually have little control), and decide to take their leave. If the Dutch have perfected their affairs with tulips (sandy soil and climactic conditions help), then Americans seem to prefer to treat their tulips as annuals, unsentimentally ripping them out after bloom time. Perhaps waiting for the foliage to fully die back--a necessity if the tulip is to bloom again and 'perennialize'--annoys fussy, impatient American gardeners. (Ahem, folks, send those bulbs to me. My inner Dutch boy will take care of them.)<br />
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Relationships are rarely one-sided. But in the case of tulips, the proof of the strength of the relationship always appears (or not) in the spring--and it is for the tulip to decide. This is the pain of a gardening life, mitigated only by the fact that for most of the year, we do not see any evidence of the tulip's existence. Absence does not always make the heart grow fonder, especially when gardening lives are filled with so many other performances. But when we come to expect a presence--and for the spring blooming tulips, expectation is a scheduled, annual affair--then the aphorism reveals its veracity. And our hearts sink in their absence. Sure, we may ensure proper drainage and placement, bestow care in the form of bone meal, and leave its increasingly unsightly foliage intact, but in the end, the tulip decides, as it must.<br />
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Still, despite the uncertainty of it all, it is nice to wonder on occasion what is going on with your friends underground. For a brief moment, it connects disparate worlds.</div>
MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-32339215451006342932013-11-14T08:31:00.003-05:002013-11-14T17:20:02.793-05:00On Inferiority, and Silliness<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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So the beautiful tree hydrangea that I purchased this summer, managed to transport home in the MINI with nary a leaf spared, planted to partially remedy the sudden lack of shade in my shade garden, rejoiced in finding, and began to use as a fulcrum around which the new, formerly known as the East-Side-Shade-Bed would be redesigned, is dead.<br />
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As a doornail, the Marley to my Scrooge. <br />
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As in ding dong--though wicked witch it was not.<br />
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As in brittle twigs, brown on the inside dead.<br />
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Actually, it seems to have died while I was away in September, though I secretly hoped it wasn't so (even if I prefer not to rip it out of the ground until next spring...just to make sure).<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-7FAiwOkExAmuZOP0IQWdyTzwGtg6eQ8gmDalBtAkBrN6pjz0kRE9-oAdsbXAe0asRVc-PmJxCxQISVICk2jr9EM1HnLA6uC8YqCtSkkD2-uCMNUrkUP2djoLWlkC0qBLx6AHv3ZIzTCb/s1600/DSCF0041.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-7FAiwOkExAmuZOP0IQWdyTzwGtg6eQ8gmDalBtAkBrN6pjz0kRE9-oAdsbXAe0asRVc-PmJxCxQISVICk2jr9EM1HnLA6uC8YqCtSkkD2-uCMNUrkUP2djoLWlkC0qBLx6AHv3ZIzTCb/s400/DSCF0041.JPG" width="400" /></a>Talk about feeling inferior: I can hardly grow something <i><b>notoriously </b><b>easy </b></i>to grow. True. Neither can I grow mint, which has the well-earned reputation of being invasive, nor most hellebores (only 2 of 6 have survived), nor Lady's Mantle. Though I am sure soil type has something to do with pervasive death in my garden, I am convinced that the cause of death of these minor players in the garden drama owes to my overzealous little watering buddy, Gramsci, having caught him in the act many times.<br />
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But the tree hydrangea? No idea what killed it so suddenly.<br />
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The death got me thinking about inferiority.<br />
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Professionally, I act in a world in which inferiority abounds. It's a disease with which most of us are infected during graduate school, since it is the job of advisors to strengthen the mettle of their graduate students, which they (we) do by pointing out all of the flaws and shortcomings in their advisees' scholarship. True stuff. Only the method of delivering such news differs, though even the most humanitarian of advisors will sometimes lose patience and tap into unadulterated, unadorned, audacious brusqueness. In any case, given that scholarship is the outward appearance of our thinking, many have a difficult time distinguishing criticism of scholarship from criticism of self, and hence the seed is planted; the cancer cell born. If cultivated properly, they sprout or metastasize (use whichever metaphor you prefer).<br />
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Graduation, and the earned privilege of being addressed with the honorific "doctor" (which the non-PhD holding world will continually remind that you are not a "real doctor"), does not curtail the disease. In fact, the criticism of scholarship (accomplished via the "anonymous review" process) may sometimes be harsher; the disease spreads. Many of us (secretly) think our scholarship is inferior to that produced by others, especially when confronted by the several peacocks and prima donas who strut about singing their operatic graces. At a conference recently, I was gently chastised after my presentation by a senior scholar who holds a prominent research chair at prestigious university Y for doing what she had already done; "read my book," she implored me (nay, dictated).<br />
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I looked at her book. No: our work may converse, but there is no correlation or even remote similarity. I happened to mention the incident in passing to a friend, and he reported that the same senior scholar said the same thing to him and to one of his acquaintances. It's her shtick, we suppose, caused by a clear surfeit of ego. <br />
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<i>But this is not a "dirty academic secrets revealed" blog, but a gardening blog. Right. Carry on. </i><br />
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I do not pretend that I do not feel inferior--whether with respect to physical appearance (fashionable clothes and fabulous sport coats and ties which I always buy at discounted prices help divert attention), physical strength (sabbatical gives me more time to go to the gym and work on this!), intelligence (meh...I work hard to make up for the dearth of natural smarts), strength of scholarship (not so noticed in the wider academic realm of what I do), culinary skills (ahem, Mara, and Viet, and, and...), and yes, gardening.<br />
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Most of the time, I, as most of us do, "just get on with it" and pay no further heed to the inferiority complexes we develop and, dare I admit it, cultivate. Indeed, most of the time these complexes become fuel for self-improvement and self-construction, save for when the aging body revolts against the plan to run a half marathon in a few months by inflaming the Achilles heel and igniting furnace-like flames in the knees to make simple movement from bed-to-bathroom a whole new experience in pain. Or when reviewers force us to rethink our intellectual choices and arguments. Or, or, or...<br />
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But these various complexes make us stronger in the sense of turning us into individuals. Platitude? Hardly. It really is true. <br />
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I've occasionally felt inferior to Viet's many considerable talents and knowledges. Take movies, for instance (he keeps a blog, <a href="http://mycriterionlife.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">My Criterion Life</a>). The man is an encyclopedia: from film noir to slasher flicks, from classic to contemporary, Viet can name directors, reconstruct plots, and launch into effortless exegesis on meaning/symbolism/perspective/you-name-it--such cinematic prowess variously deployed as valuable social currency (dazzling at receptions!) or scholarly research. <br />
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Yesterday morning I was reminded of that particular inferiority. Famous scholar-in-my-field Cynthia Enloe wrote in a 1996 article:<br />
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"Looking at NAFTA from Chiapas, giving Indian women and men voices and visibility in an analysis of this major post-Cold War political construction, is not a matter of simply choosing post-positivist 'Roshomon' over Enlightenment-inspired 'Dragnet'. <i>Roshomon</i> was the highly acclaimed Japanese film that told the story of a highway robbery and abduction not just from the omnipotent - 'true' - perspective of the film-maker, but from the multiple - perhaps all 'true' - perspectives of several of the characters...It does indeed appear to make far more sense to adopt a 'Roshomon' posture, to assume that people playing different roles in any international phenomenon will understand its causes and its meanings differently."<br />
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Viet-worthy analysis. Why can't I watch films as Viet and Cynthia Enloe do, and as Susan Sontag did, and interpret them so intelligently? Oh, that's right: because that presupposes one stays awake to watch the film in its entirety. <br />
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Yes, dear reader, the passage and the thought made me stop my work. For a moment, the wave of inferiority got the better of me. Rather, I allowed it to.<br />
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<i>Oh, right. This is a gardening blog, not "Confessions 101."</i><br />
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And then I thought: how silly we humans are, always measuring ourselves against each other and feeling inferior or superior as a result. This is the worst kind of hierarchy we humans construct, for it easily morphs into an Otherization by the superior of the inferior, which then translates behaviorally. <i>But I digress, as usual.</i><br />
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Most of our inferiority complexes, I have come to realize, are silly, even if they may be based on some degree of truth (e.g. we may not be able to run a marathon, though our friends can; our pies may taste good, but look rather amateur compared to the exceptional pies made by friends; we have recognized/celebrated taste in home decorating and pairing furnishings with exquisite wall color, but our execution shows on the ceiling). These things are silly mostly because, I am convinced, they stem from unrealistic expectations, misguided notions of perfection, lack of complete information (usually about others and their own realities), and (a prime culprit) impatience.<br />
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Gardening teaches me the folly and sheer silliness of major aspects of our human lives: the folly of worrying (an art I have perfected), the folly of self-abnegation (likewise an activity in which I have excelled), the folly of feeling inferior to others. While I may still worry (admittedly, sometimes about really crazy things, like the bookshelf next to the bed toppling over and decapitating cat--and yes, dear reader, I actually stressed about this for a while), I have learned to treat myself and splurge once in a while.<br />
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But feeling inferior? Sure, one of its forms rears its ugly little head on occasion, but that's cue for taking action.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTRz-mYoAn_Wi8smsOcdd0QhcY4hZvvgR3RSZ9PwLPVqfWbFO_EiyPNBYQRDUEFkph34CbeYT2uzk4CkrHjfxxk3QPH0WcaErC-5Xx0Yq635dvci-ctxq1i9avTQPH7LqQ-Xzw3aRegDlh/s1600/DSCF0132.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTRz-mYoAn_Wi8smsOcdd0QhcY4hZvvgR3RSZ9PwLPVqfWbFO_EiyPNBYQRDUEFkph34CbeYT2uzk4CkrHjfxxk3QPH0WcaErC-5Xx0Yq635dvci-ctxq1i9avTQPH7LqQ-Xzw3aRegDlh/s320/DSCF0132.JPG" width="240" /></a>Nurse our wounds for a moment, and then focus on the repair. In gardening, it's a little easier: identify the problem and rip it out. Or, if one feels a bit more 'plantitarian,' bestow extra care on the source of our inferiority. And if it doesn't perform, rip it out and get another one. Sentimentality does not a beautiful garden make.<br />
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With the human psyche, the situation is more complex. But here, too, we can take our cue from gardening. Gardening is a process. Both plants and the garden itself unfold over time. Each plant and flower should be celebrated for what <i>IT </i>specifically offers to the garden, and, importantly, for what IT in itself and for itself is. We wouldn't impose upon the elegant (though must be staked) stalks of cobalt blue delphiniums the demands we bestow upon the daffodil, which ushers us out of winter blues. Only exceptionally silly (read: unrealistic) people (who are well beyond the help of this doctor!) think that Helianthus, Yarrow, and the Mallows--all flowers for the mid summer garden--should bloom in April.<br />
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If we are not exceptionally silly, then: <br />
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(a) determine if the subject of inferiority is something we actually want (a "better" physique? a reputation amongst our friends for being a great cook? etc.), and, if so, then consciously and patiently strive for the objective;<br />
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(b) determine, soberly, the nature of the objective:<br />
-- if realistic and achievable, go back to (a);<br />
-- if unrealistic but enjoyable (e.g. being as skilled a cellist as Yo-Yo Ma though you only just, at the age of 40, started playing the cello), drop the pretenses and inferiority and pursue it because of its enjoyment and enrichment factors, no matter how flawed our efforts may be;<br />
-- if unrealistic and not enjoyable, take your cue from a gardening life: rip it out of your life and fill the space with something else.</div>
MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-73893521432456554032013-11-12T09:39:00.003-05:002013-11-12T09:40:15.790-05:00On Vocabulary<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I pulled back the curtains in the study this morning (our "This Old
House" exudes its charms this time of year in the form of drafts, and
curtains are a handy way to block the more egregious of them) to
discover a rear shade garden awash in shades of yellow--the populist
color, as Christopher Lloyd dubbed it.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWZcX7pjztu3SrRn7BKyDvrpv4LA3d3Fh7KGXe4G7fq7J_n3HHfjEO63_GMJXaxgca40TIKoO8FBJBK_C4mJhFowICtRbPS6_9tzCXMkjJHyNhwkaVZHIk9CYnm5aqyYn-rstEPifuxGN2/s1600/DSCF0127.JPG" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWZcX7pjztu3SrRn7BKyDvrpv4LA3d3Fh7KGXe4G7fq7J_n3HHfjEO63_GMJXaxgca40TIKoO8FBJBK_C4mJhFowICtRbPS6_9tzCXMkjJHyNhwkaVZHIk9CYnm5aqyYn-rstEPifuxGN2/s400/DSCF0127.JPG" width="400" /></a>At this time of year, I can't imagine the eye <i><b>NOT </b></i>attuned
to lighting and coloration which change daily. Yet our modern, busy
lives increasingly orient us away from the spectacle of the world and
towards the entrapped, elusive light of the screen.<br />
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But
there it was: an overnight metamorphosis providing the bookend to the
2013 gardening season. If we began with spring yellows, we end with
autumnal ochres.<br />
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The Solomon's Seal--comparatively, the
least exuberant of the garden yellows at the moment--caught my
attention, for its transfiguration has only just begun, its flavescent
leaves suspended just for today in a curious interregnum as viridity
yields to heraldic gold.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEif-rQGJNFzID9D0mCJ9H2rBKFRM05YkCFYMxwRWwjDW8Yt2ShX12kRXC7xX1thAka3QY4b4lXWlfoKQSgpTtsNwMSV7CxWSzv6dpQlr6QOZ716tuzJlBtLTiZ901Rgq6Uyy3uJ_oShO0Gn/s1600/DSCF0128.JPG" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEif-rQGJNFzID9D0mCJ9H2rBKFRM05YkCFYMxwRWwjDW8Yt2ShX12kRXC7xX1thAka3QY4b4lXWlfoKQSgpTtsNwMSV7CxWSzv6dpQlr6QOZ716tuzJlBtLTiZ901Rgq6Uyy3uJ_oShO0Gn/s400/DSCF0128.JPG" width="300" /></a>In less than a minute the following happened.<br />
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I
wanted to jot a haiku in its honor, but Polygonatum just seemed,
visually, too bulky a word, even if, syllabically, it conveniently
satisfied first line requirements. <br />
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I then began to
think of (or rather look up) the diversity of words we have to capture
one color and its multiple hues and shades:<br />
<br />
aurulent,
chartruese, citreous, citrine, flavescent, gamboge, goldenrod,
icteritious, isabelline (like graying-yellow hair we hope to avoid),
jessamy, luteolous, luteous, lutescent, melichrous (like honey), meline,
ochre, ochroleucous, or, primrose, sulphureous, tawny, tilleul, topaz,
vittelary, and xanthic.<br />
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What language!<br />
<br />
I
spied a fulvous aging white port in the lower leaves of Carolina
Allspice, which reminded me of a nearly-forgotten bottle and my time in
Porto in 2011.<br />
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There was a wheaten sunset supplied by a
potted Sum and Substance Hosta at the base of Mount (Sawtooth) Aucuba,
while on the other side, was a rising icterine sun in the form of Kerria
japonica 'Golden Guinea'. A most pleasing microcosm of our world.<br />
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And then there was the white.<br />
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No:
not the white from the errant flowers of the leatherleaf viburnum
(Viburnun rhytidophyllum) or the few remaining chrysanthemums or even
the Camellia sassanqua.<br />
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No. <br />
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This was the white of falling snow: one bookend overlapping with another.<br />
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This
is our world: a panoply, a diversity, a richness, a mutability that we
dismiss by calling it cyclical (as if to say, "if you miss it this year,
it will happen again next"). How much of it goes increasingly
unnoticed? <br />
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MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-29073350838192178882013-08-20T08:24:00.000-04:002013-08-20T11:46:51.329-04:00On Discipline<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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When I began this blog, I freely admitted my promiscuity.<br />
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In fact, the confessional appeared in my second entry, <a href="http://dirtythoughtsagardeninglife.blogspot.com/2010/03/public-confession-1.html" target="_blank">Public Confession #1</a>. Lena Scotch Broom, with her tantalizingly tangelo and lemon yellow flowers, was the Ariadne to my Theseus. <br />
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Of course, most gardeners are promiscuous. When allured by the brazen sexuality of a flower with an extended stamen or a fleshy pistil, or a flashy dress of petals; when seduced by color, whether bold or subtle, the hue of which captures light "just right" and brightens (and broadens) our perspectives; when enchanted by the elfin charm of an exotic or unusual varietal; when embraced by the brawn of a handsome plant, we gardeners genuflect before the pot or the price tag, our prurient desires satisfied--always thinking, "just one plant won't hurt."<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn32cHGQUynrZbzeNTkhhgdvr2uWsME397lBXJG0FQyQ6dJy2IovlTIYabkLc2yJqxsPGT9FuP3jCx0Gl9oLBbpmeRyj68edsQM1lZNjRyTwVAUcgZqEBt6Lrz2kCD2qU7kvkwFi1r-hvE/s1600/DSCF9929.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn32cHGQUynrZbzeNTkhhgdvr2uWsME397lBXJG0FQyQ6dJy2IovlTIYabkLc2yJqxsPGT9FuP3jCx0Gl9oLBbpmeRyj68edsQM1lZNjRyTwVAUcgZqEBt6Lrz2kCD2qU7kvkwFi1r-hvE/s400/DSCF9929.JPG" width="400" /></a>And yet they usually do hurt, that is, if the garden is one of design and the paramour in question introduces yet another shade of desire. Otherwise, a riot of color in an unplanned garden may (a highly contingent "may," mind you) actually look quite good--an homage of sorts to the quintessential English cottage garden. <br />
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Recently, owing to changes on the other side of the fence, I've had to rethink the backyard shade garden (yesterday, more was removed, yet this time I was so gratefully consulted by the owner and tall, tanned, sandy-haired, and toned-muscular landscaper; my eye-candy must have thought my flirtations importunate yet, at the same time, flattering, because he repeatedly asked if his work and pruning satisfied me). But I digress...discipline...oh yes, right.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOgCIzlUZef6c3iSSkCiU_B2XmFX2CAf4WM6C4z1yvwEzGGBH1qrIwm7tM0M0EKExJGoX-coXA3jC9P_SkSKM7vt2uul9_mSgvZPI2bXGASWQa4oBLjhytbDTZZHp9SXvJ8kqncAsgmYiA/s1600/DSCF9930.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOgCIzlUZef6c3iSSkCiU_B2XmFX2CAf4WM6C4z1yvwEzGGBH1qrIwm7tM0M0EKExJGoX-coXA3jC9P_SkSKM7vt2uul9_mSgvZPI2bXGASWQa4oBLjhytbDTZZHp9SXvJ8kqncAsgmYiA/s400/DSCF9930.JPG" width="300" /></a>Knowing the predicament I faced, a friend, Rich, so thoughtfully introduced me to his gardener friend, Kevin, who faced the opposite situation: enlarged trees and shrubs created increasing shade for what was once a predominantly sun garden. We met and exchanged some plants, one of which was this Agastache (above and aside), the blooms of which are more diminutive than is customary whose Greek nomenclature directs us to its many tall spikes of purple flowers--but I did shock her by transplanting just prior to flowering. I paired it with Baby Blue hosta, which I think, once both become fuller next year, will look smashing together.<br />
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With the transplanted Heliopsis--also a gift from Kevin--and the spring-blooming Kerria (which is happily offering the occasional "Japanese rose" even now in waning summer), I was suddenly reminded of my original design scheme, at least for the front garden: blue and white. Confronted with the specter of the present--yellows, blues, purples, and whites--and reminded of the pleasures of the recent past--a sporadic sprinkling of pink to accent those colors--I felt the disciplinary compulsion to reign in the garden and realize a design that went beyond a generic and loose commitment to 'East meets West', 'Japanese meets English cottage garden aesthetic' principles. Panoptikon lives. <br />
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Any garden designer (or magazine article on garden design)--even those who specialize in cottage gardens, which appear to the untrained eye as a simple melange but which really are not--will in varying degrees recommend or downright insist on discipline, even if that discipline manifests itself only as a limitation of color combinations along a particular segment of the color wheel (say, the yellow-greens to the reds for a fiesta of heat and salsa, or the red-violets to the dark greens to achieve a cooler, more meditative atmosphere), or to an analogic color scheme (colors alongside a given color), or, more restrictive still, to a composition of complementary or opposite colors (say, green and red, or blue and orange). The gardener and visitor alike (nay, the eye) will be rewarded, so we are told, by the commitment to a scheme.<br />
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I think there is an added, often curiously unstated, benefit: the gardener becomes well versed in a particular array of plants and flowers. Surely, one can visit the local garden center and purchase what is available. But the garden becomes more special, and is elevated in stature and meaning, when the gardener invests some time and energy to research and seek out, though internet and catalog perusal, unusual specimens that conform to a selected palette (keeping in mind that color comes from both flower and foliage!). And for garden snobs--surely, a Lady Mary lives in each of us!--there is no greater pleasure in showing off our finds and artistry. <br />
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Of course, the $64,000 question (or the $1 million question when adjusted for inflation!) is whether I have enough discipline to realize and maintain my garden coloration scheme.<br />
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MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-11419823523520808212013-08-13T17:12:00.004-04:002013-08-14T07:06:41.011-04:00Gateways<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<br />
<span id="redesign_default"><span id="MNGiSection">The other day, I
emerged from my house and spied a massive spider web strung across my entry walkway, from the Japanese Tree Lilac to the Rose
Mallow--an appreciable distance. The bulk of the web was off to the side nearest the Tree Lilac,
thus enabling us to pass under it without harming this remarkable
display of fortitude. Returning from the grocery store, one of our neighbors greeted us: he did not wish us to walk into it, so he destroyed
the web. </span></span><br />
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<span id="redesign_default"><span id="MNGiSection">A rush of conflicting emotions short-circuited my ability to respond: how very thoughtful, but...oh my gosh! You destroyed her home! I felt a pang of sadness, and thought of Charlotte (yes, E.B.
White fans). The next day, the web reappeared, but I could not get a
decent picture of it in the sun. </span></span><br />
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<span id="redesign_default"><span id="MNGiSection">Today's violent early morning storms erased all traces of it. I wonder what happened to Charlotte. Was she washed away with the torrent of water rushing down the street and side-walk? Did she cling to the underside of a Tree Lilac leaf and thus survive our "emergency alert" producing storms?</span></span><br />
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<span id="redesign_default"><span id="MNGiSection">That perfect "arch" across my walkway evoked a "memory" of sorts. </span></span><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinlvYZdiYUf_qhiRsLOYmQPSfMwECFMG_kPh5MGz5h8t3dXJE9bC7rVS_PPwveQ-j_oPg_KnvCN-IdnZGWt7oW2DVZP3Aosah2d5uN4cFgVB6BwQcqSwkrv2oLV9tpbtP_Q2TMOE_5KCoP/s1600/Mizpah+Arch.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="322" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinlvYZdiYUf_qhiRsLOYmQPSfMwECFMG_kPh5MGz5h8t3dXJE9bC7rVS_PPwveQ-j_oPg_KnvCN-IdnZGWt7oW2DVZP3Aosah2d5uN4cFgVB6BwQcqSwkrv2oLV9tpbtP_Q2TMOE_5KCoP/s400/Mizpah+Arch.jpg" width="400" /></a>For twenty-five years (4 July 1906 - 7 December 1931), a majestic and (in my opinion) unusual arch stood in front of Denver's Union Station. Greeting arriving visitors, the arch proudly offered a hearty "welcome" in large font across the main, decorative massive steel beam which was supported by two square columns, and flanked on either side by two smaller entryways.<br />
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Yet the arch received its name from the word that appeared on the other, city-facing side: Mizpah (<span class="hebrew">מִצְפָּה</span>), a Hebrew word meaning, in its simplest articulation, a watchtower.<br />
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It makes some sense, for the grand arch, "wider than a basketball court is long," stood watch over thousands of passengers entering and departing the Mile High via rail service. <br />
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But its more nuanced, substantive meaning derives from Genesis 31: 44-49:<br />
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"'Come, then, let us [Laban and Jacob] make a pact, you and I, that there may be a witness between you and me.' And Jacob said to his kinsmen, 'Gather stones'. So they took stones and made a mound; and they partook of a meal there by the mound....And Laban declared, 'This mound is a witness between you and me this day'...and it was called Mizpah because he said, 'May the Lord watch between you and me, when we are out of sight of each other.'"<br />
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Mind you, this tale of Jacob and Laban is one of deceit; hence a "watchtower" or "policing presence" seemed quite necessary. But how Mizpah came to signify the emotional bond between people who are separated by geography or by death (the word is often found on Jewish tombstones) is thus beyond me, unless of course we equate this watchtower with commitment; commitment with integrity; integrity with trust; and trust with connection. Talmudic scholars: please advise! <br />
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No matter: Denver's Mizpah Arch stood as a physical testament to the very bonds of love--romantic, filial, Platonic, or otherwise--that make us human and embed us in community with each other. Indeed, Mayor Robert Speer's dedication evoked that deeper meaning: the arch, he declared, "<span id="redesign_default"><span id="MNGiSection">would stand 'for ages
as an expression of love, good wishes and kind feelings of our citizens
to the stranger who enters our gates.'" Obviously, his words were not that prophetic. (</span></span><a href="http://www.denverpost.com/art/ci_14021344" target="_blank">A small group of very influential</a>--read: wealthy and politically connected--Denverites are trying to resurrect the arch, though v<span id="redesign_default"><span id="MNGiSection">ery little movement seems to have been made since a 2009 fund-raising event.)</span></span><br />
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Architectures of transition--our arches and arbors and pergolas and hallways and tunnels--matter. They help demarcate and link different spaces, and, through their function of connection, help define zones of activity. But they matter for a much deeper reason.<br />
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These architectures of transition also are a particular kind of space in and of themselves and thus deserve more sustained reflection and attention, and command respect we otherwise fail to give them. For p<span id="redesign_default"><span id="MNGiSection">assing through them, we transition: we connect and separate simultaneously.</span></span> The American artist James Turrell understands this. I think here of his <a href="http://friendshouston.org/skyspace/about" target="_blank">"Skyspace" at the Live Oaks Friends Meeting House</a> (in Houston) and his tunnel of light (formally, <a href="http://www.mfah.org/art/100-highlights/light-inside-turrell/" target="_blank">"The Wilson Tunnel") at The Museum of Fine Arts, Houston</a>, where I worked for two years. [<a href="http://www.mfah.org/exhibitions/james-turrell-retrospective/" target="_blank">A superb, brief video with views of both can be found here</a>.]<br />
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The transition is simultaneously a movement (an action), and a space (a thing). Only in stillness are we able to understand both.<br />
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I think of Charlotte (the spider) and her home (my improbable arch), and I stare upon my arbor, and I wonder: Denver's Mizpah Arch had it just right. Our architectures of transitions are at their best when they force us to stop, if only for a moment, and acknowledge and pay homage to our very human propensities to connect and love, to separate and distinguish, and to ease our movement when we need to move.<br />
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MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-75478233704432890582013-07-29T09:28:00.001-04:002013-08-03T07:24:17.506-04:00My Rose of Sharon, One Year Later<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span itemscope="" itemtype="http://schema.org/CreativeWork">A crimson sky bathed the rear garden in an ethereal glow moments before darkness shrouded this part of the world--yet it was not at the time conceived of as a prelude to the dramatic storms that would follow several hours later. </span><br />
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<span itemscope="" itemtype="http://schema.org/CreativeWork">Torrents of wind-driven rain produced a turbulent river down the street, carrying the detritus of human life and the limbs and leaves of trees with it; rolling crescendos peaked into the denouement of piercing claps of thunder; and razor-sharp streaks of lighting slashed the skies while illuminating black, angry clouds.</span><br />
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<span itemscope="" itemtype="http://schema.org/CreativeWork">I did hear thunder and I did remember her: our beloved Sharon who left this world one year ago today.</span><br />
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<span itemscope="" itemtype="http://schema.org/CreativeWork">But Sharon identified <i>with </i>the flower: for her, looking across the street every morning for weeks during summer's midpoint and decrescendo, she absorbed its beauty, mused on it. It was often the opening salvo of our daily morning conversations, her sitting on her stoop having coffee, me, emerging to feed the outdoor cats.</span><br />
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<span itemscope="" itemtype="http://schema.org/CreativeWork">But the sunset, the storms, the Akhmatova poem (a particular favorite of mine), Rose Mallow's first display of more than 6 flowers at a time: their junction struck me as a sign. </span><br />
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<span itemscope="" itemtype="http://schema.org/CreativeWork">But it was <i>her </i>cancer. She took ownership of it in order to accept it. She did not fight in the way we normally attribute "struggles" or "battles" with cancer; in this way, she lived Susan Sontag's exegesis,<i> Illness as Metaphor</i>. And her ownership of this virulent, fast-consuming <i>thing</i>, we think, helped her move forward and live "normally" for months with few ostensible effects. And then suddenly, one morning she awoke, and she appeared different, for the cancer, overnight, transformed the physicality of our beloved Sharon. And such began the rapid descent...</span><br />
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<span itemscope="" itemtype="http://schema.org/CreativeWork">And so today I see signs of her, and celebrate her life, even if the celebration is marked by tears and pangs of pain, much like the fuchsia droppings of Rose Mallow as she discards those magnificent blossoms daily, during the evening, as if exhausted from serving as a vanguard of beauty. </span><br />
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MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-80187490396255148542013-07-21T08:17:00.003-04:002013-07-21T15:50:58.181-04:00Serendipity<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I am increasingly convinced that a majority of the successes of gardening owe not to design and careful planning and planting, but to the happy accident we call serendipity.<br />
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Two years ago, I was a beneficiary (one of thousands) of the Delaware Center for Horticulture's tree planting program. Six of us on the block received <i>Syringa reticulata</i> (Japanese Tree Lilac), a small to medium sized tree, perfect for urban living, upright and compact, distinguished by its mass plumes of showy white flowers in late spring (no picture available).<br />
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I asked the DCH team to plant my new Tree Lilac not on the mass of my front sun garden, but slightly on my side of this neighborhood's ubiquitous waste-land: that sliver parcel of property that marks the division between all of the semi-detached homes with which no one quite knows what to do. <br />
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The tree was situated just in front of the bed of pale yellow bearded irises. In previous years, the mass of irises bloomed in unison, though the few pale lavender irises which somehow became mixed up in the yellow bunch bloom slightly earlier. This year, however, the irises bloomed as a successive wave: those that get full sun bloomed first, followed by the irises that were only partly shaded by the tree lilac, which were succeeded by those that received sun starting in the very late morning. The results were spectacular, and my blooms lasted for several weeks!<br />
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I am sure more seasoned gardeners know this design trick, but for me it was accidental discovery at its finest.<br />
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Yesterday, I was reminded of the joys of serendipity--one of those nearly inappreciable moments of time that usually get lost in the shuffle of doing but, when noticed, strike one as a sublime manifestation of Being.<br />
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After the nursery folks helped me carefully load a 6 foot Paniculata Tree Hydrangea into my MINI (yes, you read that correctly!), I turned on the ignition, completely shocked that the tree fit, and feeling rather smug.<br />
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My smugness quickly turned to ethereal awe and a bizarre sense of humility when Handel's triumphal <i>Music for the Royal Fireworks</i> played on the Symphony channel of Sirius Radio.<br />
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Neither could the moment have been more perfect, nor could I have planned it. Serendipity.<br />
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On the drive home, during which nary a leaf was lost, I felt that which the audience in London's Green Park must have felt back in 1749 when the music was first performed: relief that the War of the Austrian Succession was over, and joy in the certitude of life.<br />
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MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-40941195284411761252013-07-20T16:33:00.003-04:002013-07-20T16:33:23.812-04:00The Social Event of the Season<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Today, social events of the season seem not to be a thing of the past, but certainly a vestige of the past. In an age of Facebook and Twitter, video and instantaneous communication, almost any event ascends to the hierarchy of attention given proper dissemination. Wrapped in hyperbole, nearly every event arrives at the pinnacle of importance which, of course, only demands that the next be characterized more effusively.<br />
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Somehow, these events seem to have lost their privilege and with it, their meaning. At least in my warped vision of the past and the present. But it need not be that way.<br />
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For instance, let's consider the following. Bill Cunningham of the famed fashion pages of <i>The New York Times </i>delivers weekly to a worldwide audience a display of (usually) New York fashion, such that you would think this week's <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/video/2013/07/19/fashion/100000002346645/bill-cunningham-fried-egg.html" target="_blank">'Baked Apple' play on the 'Big Apple'</a> was the social event of the summer fashion scene. Perhaps it is.<br />
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Please dear reader: I emphatically plead with you not to misinterpret. I love Bill and <i>crave </i>his weekly insights. He rises above the din and places his finger, effortlessly, perspicaciously, on the pulse of life. Or at least of an aspect of life. I would not have it any other way. It's the way he sees beyond and through people and their superficialities and captures a moment's essence that has, seemingly, arisen and presented itself organically, unconsciously, and only constitutes a trend--and this is critical--because Bill has observed and decreed it as such. Therein lies the power of a social event of the season. <br />
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But here is where, somehow, most of our social events of the season part company with Bill Cunningham and seem less peculiar and special moments in time for which we prepare weeks if not months than an instance among many on a streaming calendar of life. We are all Twitter and Instagram and Facebook and status updates and tweets: we are moments vying for attention. And somehow we lose our way. <br />
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Like any social event of the season, she is larger than life. Well, now, that surely is an exaggeration, but seriously: the flower is enormous. Here, for scale, I photographed it from across the street against the backdrop of No. 410. And she dazzles. Her fiery fuchsia and morphing lavender-to-magenta-and-plum colored stems, along with those palmate leaves: well now, that is one chic gown she sports!<br />
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Like any social event of the season, she lasts for a brief period of time, her moment on this earth infused with a curious mix of frivolity and seriousness that defines it. More properly stated, each flower lasts one day, though she blooms from mid-to late July into well into September. <br />
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MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-27386373464684452312013-07-18T07:28:00.000-04:002013-07-18T07:36:12.366-04:00Opposites Do Not Always Attract<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Romantic lore (er, wisdom?) has it that opposites attract.<br />
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You know: the petite blond attracted to the strapping tall, dark, and handsome specimen of humanity, positive ions attracted to negative ions, and all that.<br />
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My intended research on the origin of the adage yielded not a linguistic history, but affirmations and denials, and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xweiQukBM_k" target="_blank">an eponymous Paula Abdul song</a>.<br />
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One website claimed that when it comes to values and qualities, people actually seek the similar.<br />
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Another claimed that in terms of the Myers-Briggs personality type indicator, people usually are attracted to their opposite with respect to the Introversion/Extroversion and Judging/Perceiving scales.<br />
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Silliness: life is an amalgamation of many truths, not singular ones.<br />
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Yet I can affirm that at least one pair of opposites do not attract: sun and shade.<br />
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My neighbor recently spoke to me about trimming the shade- and privacy-providing, albeit severely overgrown and misshapen hedge that divides our properties. I understood him to be asking for permission to pick up any debris that happened to land on my property.<br />
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On Sunday morning, after a delightful Saturday away, I awoke, turned on the computer, and glanced out the study window to look upon the garden. What greeted me was horror: the trimming of the hedge row more properly stated proved to be an extermination. The yews. His pogrom--one designed to trim the mass as it were--clearly, quickly morphed into a genocide. My East Side Shade Bed (ESSB) was now the East Side Full-Sun Bed, though I could think of a four-letter F word that would nicely take the place of "Full" and express my feelings. <br />
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Sure, he left several feet of bare trunks to protrude (oddly) from the ground, a memorial marking for what once stood on his property, and nothing else save for a rhododendron which he recognized, and the two final bushes that marked the end of the hedge: a yew and the enormous Viburnum.<br />
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Soon, I heard not the metal clacking sounds of a hand-held shears, but the gas-motorized roar of a mini-chainsaw. Out the door I ran.<br />
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He greeted me with, "Oh my God, where were you yesterday?! I needed you...."<br />
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I started with recognition of his property rights. "Hi X. Please don't misinterpret, for you have every right to do whatever you wish to your property. But I admit I am shocked and now extremely worried about my plants. I thought you were going to trim the yews, but you.... you," (I stammered, overcome with shock) "..you cut them to the ground."<br />
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"I know, I know: I didn't know what I was doing! I am so sorry! That's why I needed you yesterday but you weren't around! I am so sorry!" Not the reaction I expected, but good. My genocidaire was actually reasonable. To a degree.<br />
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"This isn't your problem," I continued, "but I have some very expensive unusual specimens in that bed that need full shade. I haven't time to relocate an entire bed of plants, so if I could plead with you, could you please not chop down the remaining yew and the Viburnum?"<br />
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"The what? What's a Vi-....whatever you just said."<br />
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So we talked. And, together, we <i>trimmed and shaped</i> the remaining yew, which shades the Buddha bed and my now-beloved, and expensive, Edgeworthia. And the Viburnum remains....vibrant.<br />
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Over the last few days, in the wee hours of the morning before the temperatures quickly reach the 90s and the humidity level makes gardening unbearable, I've been moving things around. Not quickly enough, however. Yesterday's high heat and full day of sun were not kind to the plants of the Formerly-Known-as-the-ESSB.<br />
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But that's what gardening is all about: successes and losses. And in the gardening world, those opposites certainly always do attract.<br />
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MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-90120299926889263202013-01-12T10:25:00.001-05:002013-01-12T10:25:04.439-05:00The Illusive Garden"Gardeners are often good letter writers, and whether they write to describe what's blooming today or to remember a flower from childhood, their letters are efforts to preserve memory. After they have put away tool in the shed, they write letters as a way to go on working in the garden. Because it is impossible to achieve the ind of perfection they dream of, they try to come to terms with their dreams by talking back and forth about their successes and failures. Sometimes they like to have visitors who can walk with them along the paths and admire their handiwork, but at other times, they feel more confident if they can keep visitors at a distance. No matter how lovely the garden looks, as soon as the gardener hears that someone is coming, [the gardener] feels compelled to warn, 'Don't expect much; we haven't had rain.' The perfect flower today can wilt under the eye of tomorrow's visitor. Even a visit to Monet's garden may find us standing in a line in the rain only to notice an unweeded bed. It is far easier to maintain the illusion of a garden in a letter.<br />
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Which brings us to the idea of a garden as an illusion, for it is the constant hope of the gardener that enriching this bed and plating that shrub will result in an aesthetic experience that lives up to the dream. So, what is the gardener's dream but a dream of the ideal order in which beauty can be expressed and loss absorbed? Often the struggle between what is hoped for and what is accomplished meets with unexpected disappointments: weeds and varmints are insistent, a flower bed looks poorly. But as the gardener moves along with worried brow, suddenly the smell of a particular flower provides transport to a garden from one's childhood...Memory is awakened, the world made whole, if only for a moment. But in that moment some sort of healing takes place, or so gardeners have believed for centuries."<br />
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MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-67771904294336776602012-12-01T06:17:00.002-05:002012-12-01T06:17:34.071-05:00Oh, the things we say...We bought paper towels at Costco many weeks ago--you know, the gigantic "500 saver pack" that requires a McMansion to store them--and in the throes of frustration cleaning up cat vomit (do cats ever NOT vomit?! And why do they ALWAYS vomit on my expensive Herats or Kashmiris, or my Bijar or favorite Suzani?) I paused long enough to spy that which I did not--or refused--to earlier see: nasty little depictions of potted flowers accompanied by kitschy garden sayings designed for the "country kitchen."<br />
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"Friends are flowers in a life's garden."<br />
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Puh-lease.<br />
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"No two days are the same in one garden."<br />
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This one is palatable, as is this one: "No two gardens are the same." Both are very true, empirically speaking. <br />
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"You can bury a lot of troubles digging in the dirt" resonates, while "the flowers of tomorrow are the seeds of today" nauseates.<br />
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And "gardening is a way of showing you believe in tomorrow" just makes me want to hurl.<br />
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Separately, one can overlook (er, ignore) them (as I have done), but together, they constitute a veritable menagerie of the most unattractive cutesy kitsch. <br />
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But then I began to think of other garden- or agricultural-inspired aphorisms.<br />
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"We make our own beds, and we must lie in them."<br />
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"We reap what we sow." <br />
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"Even the most beautiful roses have thorns." <br />
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We populate our lives with adages, "old wives' tales," aphorisms, and proverbs. Their veracity is reified and magnified by an economy of words; their effects are seemingly more damning if we neglect their wisdom.<br />
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Pithiness in the world of adages is empowerment; wisdom trickles, then oozes, from the spoken word.<br />
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A parallel phenomenon happens in the garden at this time of year. Amidst the clutter of fallen leaves stand poignant reminders of the mix of seasons and the dominance of an emerging chill that lays to rest all that has lived.<br />
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The camellia blooms while the mums retreat, and the berries of Nandina sharpen in fiery intensity, signalling a transition to barren fulfillment.<br />
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<br />MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-25009627546545196222012-11-19T08:42:00.001-05:002012-11-19T08:44:59.984-05:00"Why do you garden?"<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Sometimes, it's what we say.<br />
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Other times, it's how we say it. <br />
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One day this week I encountered one of my students on the street. We exchanged pleasantries. He is on a sports team and missed the previous day's class because of a tournament. I asked about the team's performance, and he reported they won.<br />
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"That's so great! Congratulations!"<br />
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"Thanks," he replied. "So we're going to the finals next week, which means I won't be in class on Tuesday. Oh well." {<i>Oh well</i> was voiced in a particular <i>blasé </i>tone.)<br />
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"I see." <i>Did you have to say 'oh well', which is the linguistic equivalent of unceremonious dismissal? Really?</i><br />
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And then came the unexpected.<br />
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"So, about yesterday. Did you, uh, <i><b>say </b></i>anything important?"<br />
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Ahem. What?!<br />
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Did. You. Uh. Say. Anything. Important.<br />
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He did not ask the faculty-despised, <i>de rigueur</i> question asked by this generation of American students: "did I miss anything important?" <br />
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Instead, he opted to impugn and diminish my very existence in the classroom. <br />
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I quickly abandoned the ship of support and enthusiasm, which had foundered
on the shoals of his pitilessness, opting instead for salvation on the lifeboat of ill-will.<br />
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My inner bitch raged.<br />
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"You'd better get the notes because I went over material that is on the quiz tomorrow." <br />
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"Huh? Quiz? Oh, yeah, that's right," he grunted and then chuckled.<br />
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I omit my dirty thoughts.<br />
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The exchange brought to mind a series of other exchanges in which language and silences compelled mini-existential crises and varying degrees of misanthropy to germinate. <br />
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"Why do you garden?"<br />
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Oh no, dear reader, the question is not innocuous. The question stings. <br />
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My <i>Downton Abbey / Howards End / name-your-English-country-manor-period-film-bred </i>sensibilities are offended when asked <i>that </i>question.<br />
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But let me be clear: it is not the question that rattles my peace and irritates my soul. I actually welcome it when truly the interrogator is genuinely interested in the act of gardening. No: it is the tone in which it is oft delivered and the manner in which it is oft asked, for the question, as it has been asked of me, never had anything to do with me (why <i>I </i>garden; what gardening <i>means </i>to <i>me</i>), but became an
opportunity for others to exercise their
narrow-minded-bred judgmental haughtiness.<br />
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Truth be told: I refer not to one specific instance, but to several.<br />
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In one instance, my inquisitor followed up the question with an explanation: "Isn't it a waste of time? I mean, I have so many other things to do that the last thing I have time for or want to do is to go into the yard to do <i>that</i>."<br />
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<span style="color: red;">No Interpretation</span> is necessary. [By the way, dear gardener-reader,I hear you. I hear our collective iteration, 'No wonder your property looks like...'] <br />
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In another encounter, the person with whom I spoke issued an innocuous qualifier--"I have a black thumb"--which tempered the initial query which was delivered with an incredulous tone.<br />
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<span style="color: red;">Charitable interpretation</span>: "<i>this point has nothing to do with </i><b><i>why I</i></b> <i>garden, but thanks for the indirect compliment</i>."<br />
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<span style="color: red;">Unsympathetic interpretation</span>: "<i>Oh, so you think you're better than everyone else, eh? Most normal people have </i><i>limited abilities</i>. <i>Show off.</i>" <br />
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Once someone--a fellow academic, so this was an instance of the pot calling the kettle black--immediately scoffed upon asking the question (which dripped with palpable disdain), "It's <u><i>sooo</i></u> anti-social." That was a conversation stopper, as he turned and walked away. I thought of two rhyming words, both ending in -ick. <br />
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Yes, dear reader, I am a very dirty gardener.<br />
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And, on fourth occasion, my interlocutor surpassed my elitism by indicating that he hired someone to do "that work" for him, incredulous that I'd actually get my hands dirty. (Of course, I should have shoved my hands in his face, declaring that I occasionally land my hands in a pile of soft, mushy Gramsci-poo fertilizer.)<br />
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<span style="color: red;">Uncharitable interpretation</span>: I cannot comment. I assume the reader intuits the bile seething from the screen.<br />
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Whoa. Not very becoming for my first blog entry after so long an illness-and-work-imposed hiatus. <i>What a curmudgeon</i>, my dear reader must be thinking.<br />
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There is a point in all of this: individual human beings find relevance and meaning in a range of activities, and while we may question others about the derived value of such activities, we really ought to exercise our internal censors and prohibit questions with such judgments at their base, or as in the first anecdote, think more carefully about how we frame our queries and comments. <br />
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So I found delight in today's news: the American President visited Myanmar. And he spoke with reporters with Daw Aung San Suu Kyi in her manicured garden. Dan Rivers of CNN summed it up best: <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2012/11/18/world/asia/myanmar-obama-suu-kyi-rivers/index.html?hpt=hp_t1">miracles in Suu Kyi's garden</a>. <br />
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She remained under house arrest for nearly 15 years. Her garden and her house became a prison. But the garden, I surmise, served also as her source of a liberation, an enjoyment and mental escape from confinement, an object of care and concern when her own family had been exiled by the military leaders and her activity strictly monitored and curtailed.<br />
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One famous photo, taken by the famed photojournalist Steve McCurry in 1996, captures a moment that speaks a universalism: Suu Kyi reading in her garden. <br />
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McCurry noted with respect to the photo: "everywhere I go in the world, I see young and old, rich and poor, reading books. Whether readers are engaged in the sacred or the secular, they are, for a time, transported to another world."<br />
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I surmise the photo was staged. But no matter. One can imagine this a natural exercise for someone confined for nearly 15 years.<br />
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While his commentary emphasizes less the garden, I cannot help but think that each of the beds, and the garden in its entirety, creates a context or a permissive atmosphere of escape.<br />
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I thought of <i>The Garden</i>: <a href="http://www.thegardenmovie.com/about-the-film/">a documentary by Scott Hamilton Kennedy</a> about a vast, 14 acre community garden in the middle of Los Angeles that emerged as a healing experiment in the aftermath of the 1992 LA riots.<br />
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Anti-social? Hardly. It brought people together and engendered a community in an otherwise violence ridden, impoverished section of the city.<br />
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A waste of time? Stupid comment, as it generated food for a developing community.<br />
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Solipsistic? Think about it. Gardening teaches us the art of care, no matter if one is confined or if one tends the soil with a multitude of others. And care has eminently social effects.<br />
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In that space--whether it be in a garden or in a book, at a sports event or in a museum, in a yoga or an art class--we may think unencumbered. We may rejuvenate. We may erase the troubles and stresses and anxieties of the world.<br />
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And yes: if only briefly, we have stolen a moment of time to shine our armor, to replenish our reserves to repel all of the idiocy and stupidity and judgments of all those around us, and master an art of living appropriate to our individual lives.<br />
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My father has an arsenal of adages and aphorisms (not to mention jokes, both naughty and nice) at his disposal.<br />
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Recently, two of his (my?) favorites came to mind: "a blind man picked up a hammer and saw," and, despite its probable lack of political correctness, "a deaf and dumb man picked up a wheel and spoke."<br />
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Such <i>double entendres</i> helped sharpen the mind, especially for a young person. They at least made me aware of the power (and ambiguity) of language. One had to listen to my father, not just hear him, and, because he is such a trickster at heart, one really has to watch him, not just see him. <br />
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I awoke 2 a.m. on Friday panicked, hyperventilating even, once I realized the voice was completely gone: what if I needed to call for help?What if an intruder entered the room? Hypotheticals can damn the soul; the mind becomes one's worse enemy when the world of the "what if" is permitted to dominate rationality.<br />
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I've adjusted to my not-silent world, but my world in which I am not permitted a speaking role. It's oddly liberating: I can only be (many days have been bed-bound, with momentary bouts of that which I'd like to call energy punctuating this lumbering existence....bouts which have permitted me to finish grading exams for one class, and respond to some work emails). But lacking a voice is, overall, very much imprisoning. And frightening.<br />
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{<b><i>Update</i></b>: cracks of a voice emerge again this late Saturday afternoon. Antibiotics are working.} <br />
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For several weeks I have had these photos, but lacked a conceptual hook on which to hang them. My voicelessness gave me such a hook.<br />
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For how many people around us look but do not see, or hear but do not listen, or speak but communicate nothing?<br />
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This spider web is virtually invisible, save for when the sun during one point in the afternoon shines upon it.<br />
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A few nights ago, I (in my infinite insomnia) went down to get a drink of water and saw this refection of the moon in a bowl of dirty water in the kitchen sink.<br />
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There is something special in those transitory moments when the world stands still: when it all comes down to a spider web floating in air,<br />
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when we are suspended in the eye of the web,<br />
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<br />MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-7699106553269322382012-09-28T14:12:00.002-04:002012-09-28T16:07:22.507-04:00On The Power of Suggestion: My Rimpa Retreat<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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We end every yoga session with Shavasana, or corpse pose. It's rather fitting, since at the end of it your muscles have been so thoroughly stretched and pushed to their limits, and your limbs twisted in every possible direction, that you rather feel, well, dead.<br />
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Usually, the time devoted to Shavasana is a quiet one: both meditative and restorative. Today, our substitute instructor did things a little differently and talked us through the imagination of a blank white space and its gradual transformation into our particular visions of retreat / safe space, compelling us during our imagination to alternate between sweeping vistas of the space, and close-ups of specific aspects of it.<br />
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The austerity of the design was considerably relaxed by the mass plantings. There were pastel anemones contrasted with richly hued chrysanthemums, cobalt blue irises against the heathered levity of lavender. (No one said the design had to be seasonally accurate.)<br />
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It must have been the power of suggestion; otherwise, gardens really must be deeply ingrained in my psyche.<br />
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painters of Japan?" Holland Cutter deserves another Pulitzer, <i>just for that line</i>.<br />
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More an aesthetic than a school, Rimpa captures a moment, a mood in nature (mostly of seasonal change), as a poetic composition of bold colors and crisp lines. Rimpa suspends us in time--an assemblage of kermetic <i>Acer palmatum</i> leaves or a pink profusion of cherry blossoms--and also in space--a landscape no matter how contrived that forces us back to the naturalness of origins and nothingness.<br />
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My retreat was awash in colors both autumnal and vernal: a seasonal constellation in my romanticized, idealized worldview, the quintessential juxtaposition that constitutes <i>wabi-sabi</i> in which we can feel both the immense, incalculable pleasure of life, but the pangs of sadness we feel knowing the moment, <i>that </i>moment, shall soon be lost to eternity.<br />
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<br />MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-20417190044934584142012-09-22T18:33:00.002-04:002012-09-22T18:33:50.550-04:00On This Equinox: Ambivalence<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Americans are a curious sort. <br />
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Many seem to distrust or outright despise the very rich.<br />
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Many are more than suspicious of, or even, sadly, disdainful towards, the very poor.<br />
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One might think Americans intuitively know something about the common good, about the dangers of extremes and the benefits of moderation, despite the divisive rhetoric of our politicians.<br />
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One might even venture to think that Americans are natural Marxists, equalizers at heart.<br />
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Those are fightin' words, to be sure, so we shan't politicize any further our gardening thoughts. But gardening thoughts are dirty thoughts, and politics, increasingly so, is very dirty indeed. So we find, ahem, common ground betwixt them.<br />
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My brain meanders today, on this, our first day of autumn. I lurched from international law and state recognition to gardening; from sifting through white pages in search of answers, to packing rich black organic compost around the base of a newly planted white flowering rhododendron; from showering to dousing myself with mosquito spray.<br />
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Words, too, mingled. Equinox, equality, vernal, autumnal, equity, <i>ex aequo et bono</i>, equivalent, coeval, equivocal, vocal, vocation.<br />
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And I become aware of so much ambivalence in life on this day.<br />
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Equinox: from <i>aequus</i>, equal, + <i>nox</i>, or night.<br />
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Why does the Latin privilege the night over the day? For reasons of celestial and terminological harmony (solstice, or sun still / equinox, or equal night)? <br />
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Equivocal: also from <i>aequus, </i>but conjoined with <i>vox</i>, or voice, a derivative of <i>vocare</i>, meaning to call. In Latin, it is <i>aequivocus</i>, meaning of equal voice, though it has come to refer to that which is indeterminate or ambiguous. That which is equal, it seems, is indistinguishable. Hence the need to ratchet up the divisive, dirty, political rhetoric I suppose. As if facts weren't enough...well, perhaps if one party didn't disavow facts.... oh my. What a mess.<br />
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Vocation: from the Latin <i>vocatus</i>, past participle of <i>vocare</i>, "to call;" it has come to mean a calling, as in a spiritual one or, in its secular variant, a profession.<br />
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Today is an equivocal day here in northern Delaware: the warm breezes and lows 80s feel like summer; walk into the shade and you feel autumn's presence. Tomorrow will bring much cooler temperatures, we are told, and we wait. At least I wait.<br />
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And the colors of summer begin to mix with fiery autumn colors: some buds on the mums are about to burst, while Rose Mallow sails her triumphant ruby sails, and the greenery of her leaves begins to signal that life is about to change.<br />
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Ambivalence. Of both strengths. The warmth of summer and the coolness of autumn. That transition of Becoming once again. <br />
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<br />MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-72115085186222321472012-09-22T08:57:00.002-04:002012-09-22T08:57:44.760-04:00Editing<br />
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Writing is not easy.<br />
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Reading, I suspect, alters our perception.<br />
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We pick up a book and relish the prose, yet think not of the craft. We consume, yet think not of the production.<br />
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Gifted writers entice and captivate with rivulets and torrents of words which, in their very juxtaposition, generate images, evoke feelings, signify a mood, set a scene. Good writing belies the labor of the craft, for it impresses upon the reader an eloquence, a rhythm, a flow, an economy of words that, in its precision, exemplifies efficiency.<br />
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The activity of writing is much, much messier.<br />
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Nay, writing is brutal: brutal only because good writing entails not simply composition but editing, or a curious, objective, unsentimental, unforgiving approach to one's work. Editing demands disposal of the product, excision of text; reconstruction of prose; revision of ideas. It demands we confront our best work and declare it ineffective, in need of improvement.<br />
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Nature proves an apt model. I've complained this summer of my Sclerotium rolfsii which has killed ever so much in my garden. I've complained of drought. And now I complain about all of the empty spaces.<br />
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But as I walked around this morning, I was struck by how effective an editor nature really is.<br />
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What remains is an essence: a prominence of elegant burgundies and purples, as supplied by the vibrant ethereal hues of Tall Purpletop Verbena against those svelte limbs of Rose Mallow, which deepen in intensity as the days grow shorter,<br />
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which contrast so perfectly with the silvery hues of Helene von Stein Lamb's Ear when set against a backdrop of the Happy Single Flame dahlia (which has produced hundreds of buds and few flowers owing to a parasite that eats the buds from the inside out). <br />
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On the lower level in the front garden, Helene von Stein finds company with Eupatorium 'Chocolate' Snakeroot, which itself is paired (deliberately) with Lavatera Red Rum so as to accentuate the latter's burgundy stems.<br />
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The effect is, if I may, one of Teutonic efficiency, and militaristic precision.<br />
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Some things about childhood remain with us.<br />
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The brain in our youth is a sponge, and unless it is forcibly rung out over the years, we can conjure obscure moments and seemingly arcane pieces of knowledge well into our time on this earth.<br />
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That noted, I do not recall exactly where or when I heard the song, "Sneaky Snake." The now-retired American country singer Tom T. Hall (born 1936) was noted for, among other things (including his earliest successful song-writing venture, "<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ivUOnnstpg">Harper Valley PTA</a>"), his children-oriented songs. The recording <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CMxv7onpdCY">here </a>was made in 1983, but the song predates that by nine years.<br />
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I hardly think that I learned the song in 1974, for I had not yet entered kindergarten--and I do recall with certainty singing the song with other children in a classroom. And I remember the record player. And the teacher with medium length blond hair who always wore skirts that fell below her knees. She was tall and slender, and her pale blond hair angelic. <br />
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In any case, walking in the garden a few days ago--something I had not done for many weeks--I spied upon a snake skin wrapped up in the Golden Euonymous: sneaky snake slithered up the branches and shed its now useless exterior.<br />
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And a bit creepy.<br />
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And if they can do that, who knows what else they can do?! Maybe they really can steal your root beer!<br />
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<br />MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-83029968131226835622012-09-14T18:28:00.002-04:002013-07-19T07:22:56.380-04:00"Stop! In the Name of Love"<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<i>"See! yon anemones their leaves unfold, </i></div>
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If ever there was a story of a flower that exemplifies wabi-sabi, it is the anemone, a.k.a. wind-flower.<br />
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The Chinese attributed celestial significance to the anemone, associating it with passage into the afterlife and calling it the death flower. <br />
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Greco-Roman myth has it that the anemone was born out of sorrow.<br />
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<i>Alas, the Paphian! fair Adonis slain! </i></div>
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<i>Tears plenteous as his blood she
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<i>where streams his blood, there blushing
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Only the goddess Venus / Aphrodite could produce a flower so exquisite, so tender, so delicate, from a grief so consuming.<br />
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Yes, tears were born out of grief.<br />
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Yet grief was born out of love.<br />
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And love compels us to do what we otherwise might not. <br />
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So, for instance, already running late for work the other day, I let Gramsci out into the garden only to discover the variegated magenta / pink anemone(which had been incorrectly tagged at the garden center as a double varietal, hence I do not know its name) was displaying a mass of flowers.<br />
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Upstairs I ran to grab the camera.<br />
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Paired with Toad Lily, another autumnal beauty, Anemone looks smashing.<br />
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Yesterday morning, I was compelled again to capture the pairing of the waning crescent moon with Jupiter, even though my unsophisticated camera would not provide for a quality photograph.<br />
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The remainder of the day I thought of the Supremes, forcing myself in the middle of lecture not to break out into song: "<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDPjYZxi0n8">stop in the name of love</a>!"<br />
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Cheating aside, how appropriate the lyrics, I mused. For those of us who love anemones, we mourn their ephemeral existence; a stiff wind and the petals fall. <br />
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Nature's barometer, too, moisture in the air, signalling the presence of impending rain, cause the petals curl and the flower passes on. (European peasants mused that tired fairies take their evening slumber in the plush golden rods at the center of the flower, curling the leaves over them for protection.)<br />
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During these days of waning sunshine, we beseech our beloved anemone to stop--to stop in the name of our love and to stay awhile longer.<br />
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To commune with us.<br />
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To radiate. <br />
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To stave off impending cold.<br />
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But in the end we cannot change fate.<br />
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And we realize: if we lose the moment, well...we've lost the moment.<br />
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Today, the ninth day of the ninth month, is, according to the traditional Japanese calendar, <i>Kiku Matsuri</i>, the fifth (<i>Go</i>, 五) and final of the <i>Go-Sekku</i>, or seasonal festivals (五<span class="st">節句)</span>: the Chrysanthemum Festival!<br />
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Remnants of time past, the <i>Go-Sekku</i> reflect a life lived according to the passage of seasons and the inexorable rhythmic cycle of birth-maturation-aging-death. These were agriculturally oriented festivals--markers in a passage of time that assured some regularity to our unpredictable lives--when farmers sought the good graces of the <i>kami </i>(gods) as some assurance for healthy, bountiful harvests. <br />
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Last year we visited the annual <a href="http://www.longwoodgardens.org/AutumnsColors.html">Longwood Gardens Autumn Festival </a>which, for several weeks, includes a Chrysanthemum Festival inside the Conservatory. This year, the chrysanthemum portion of the seasonal celebration is scheduled from 27 October - 18 November.<br />
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Of course, this was a veritable treat for me. <i>Kiku</i>, meaning chrysanthemum yet a term that captures the art of that flower, were everywhere on display. Last year's visitors were greeted by a series of vaulted archways; the aroma of chrysanthemum proved a powerful, invigorating autumnal aphrodisiac that belied that rather warm and slightly humid mid-Atlantic November day.<br />
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<i>Ozukuri</i>--the thousand bloom chrysanthemum (on a single stem!)--deserves pride of place in any <i>Kiku Matsuri</i>, and Longwood did not disappoint. <br />
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The shield is another popular (and single-stemmed) design, achieved by grafting stems from different colored chrysanthemums onto one plant.<br />
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Cascading chrysanthemums are popular too, and simply must elicit that most basic of responses: wow. <br />
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I saw on display a particular favorite: the Thistle Mum. <br />
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I found this <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1tDpCQz3lY&feature=related">brief video about Kiku Matsuri.</a> I am sure you will enjoy it.<br />
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To honor <i>Kiku Matsuri</i>, I did the obvious: I visited my favorite garden center and bought hybrid Japanese anemones. I'll save that story for another day....<br />
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Every gardener is aware of the
micro-climate phenomenon: that space alongside a southerly
facing brick wall in which you can grow a plant 2 zones beyond the designated USDA hardiness zone; or that desertified space under your maple
tree in which Solomon Seal flourishes while your astilbe does not,
though it may several feet away; or even that spot of shade in your
full sun garden in which a tender hosta, sheltered as it were, defies
logic and thrives.<br />
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Smallness.<br />
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Our human lives, too, occupy micro-climates: infinitesimal spaces in a nearly unfathomable macrocosm.<br />
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Celestial objects, majestic mountains, dinosaur fossils, even (human-made) technology which becomes grander than the minds that gave birth to the machine (and the bomb): no wonder we should occasionally experience smallness as an existential condition.<br />
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It seems to me we humans have spent the entire history of existence trying to overcome nature, to control and subdue it. Even we gardeners, who I like to think are appreciative of the natural world, do our part towards subduing and controlling nature by nurturing and directing aspects of it. We weed. We prune. We divide. We eradicate. We expand our borders by cutting into the forest or field that abuts our property. We supplant native species with ornamentals from abroad. <br />
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The whole experience--our interaction with nature--is humbling from my point of view (though I know a number of people who will scoff at the notion, and find no moral element in our presumably G-d-given right to dominate). After all, G-d granted Adam the right to name things (perhaps there was no right granted; it was simply a perceived opportunity...I need to check this). By naming, we appropriate and exert a form of intellectual control (and a concomitant sense of ownership).<br />
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Hence, as awful as it sounds, the hurricane, the tornado, the earthquake produce a kind of melancholic satisfaction: that we are not masters of everything for we cannot control these forces of nature. We cannot even predict them. We are, in all of our naked humanness, in all of our fallibility, objects of nature, exposed in our hubristic fantasy that we dominate nature. We become, if for a moment of time in the face of these forces, infinitesimally small. You'd think we'd have learned some humility by now.<br />
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But many don't. No wonder some continue to think humans have negligible impact on the environment: because we are objects enacted upon by nature. We are the objects of disease and drought, heat waves and deep freezes, not to mention nature's more spontaneous, headline-grabbing forms of violence.<br />
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But just as we may get lost in our bigness, we may also get lost in our smallness. We hang by proverbial threads. We intuit our irrelevance or, more appropriately stated, our relevance but in the most miniscule and limited of (geographic, social, intellectual) ways. There are, to be sure, personalities that shift the course of history. There are "larger-than-life" figures. But most of us are not in any grand historical sense, even if we may be to those who intimately know us. <br />
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Several days ago, while engaged in my own inner drama, feeling infinitely small and gripped by inability (to write, to think, to be the professional I was trained to be) I took a garden stroll. This wasn't the best idea: I was confronted everywhere by evidence of my own failures. I've been too preoccupied this summer trying to finish the book I was contracted to write, and hence have spent little time gardening. I had just been away for eight days, with another brief jaunt unexpectedly appended to it. And drought, Gramsci "fertilization" and "watering," and a fatal fungus have taken heavy tolls on the garden; many of my prized ornamental hostas (Golden Tiarra, June Plantain) have succumbed to that wicked Scerlototium rolfsii that, once confined to southern tropical climates, has eased its way north (global warming?). The rear shade garden looks quite the mess.<br />
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And then I spied this gossamer thread: that delicate filament with improbable tensile strength comparable to high-grade alloy steel.<br />
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And not only the gossamer thread, but this bud on the early spring-blooming <i>Kerria japonica</i>.<br />
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And not only a bud, but a flower.<br />
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And I felt that smallness melt away. The tenacity of the spider, the toughness of the filament, paired with the fluorescence of Japanese Rose: these were little victories in this <i>annus horribilis</i> of gardening. And along that gossamer thread, I found the insignificance of my research, the irrelevance of my self, and the frustration with gardening inadvertently and unexpectedly projected away, spun out upwards into the universe and thus out of my existence.<br />
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Later, perhaps in an act of penance for the destruction he has caused, I witnessed Gramsci communing with Buddha. Or perhaps he was just contemplating what needed additional watering. One little cat (okay...not so little), one big impact. <br />
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Never underestimate smallness: its effects are anything but.<br />
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<br />MSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10968833460227676533noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1760151018181120726.post-10447268590916000392012-07-31T14:04:00.002-04:002012-07-31T14:10:29.378-04:00Shades of Purple, Shades of Perfection<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Something about this pairing struck me.<br />
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Complementary coloration, perhaps. The aubergine foliage of Happy Single Flame Dahlia, juxtaposed to the overt magentic tones of the lily illustrate just how vast is the spectrum of the color purple.<br />
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Or is it competition?<br />
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Or might it be the struggle for perfection: which of the two has won this elusive quest?<br />
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Some amongst us are obsessed with perfection. Yes, there are aesthetes who find and are deeply satisfied by the presence of beauty in art and nature. They find perfection in the stroke of a brush, or the petal of a flower.<br />
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But can these things be perfect? Whatever is meant by perfection in the case of a landscape or a painting?<br />
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Aristotle long ago (in Book Delta of <i>Metaphysics</i>) mused on perfection, and defined it as:<br />
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(a) that which is complete,<br />
(b) that which is so good that nothing could be better, or,<br />
(c) that which has attained its purpose.<br />
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But what is complete? If we refer to mortal things, then no mortal could logically be perfect in this first sense of the term until we die: for only then is our life complete. Perfection, then, is a judgment or assessment made by others. But by completeness, Aristotle meant that which contains all requisite parts, or, put differently, to that which is whole or undivided. On that view, we mortal beings are complete in a biological sense, but in a social sense we are not complete or perfect as automatons: we are, as Aristotle noted in <i>The Politics</i>, social animals, political ones even, who become complete by living amongst and with, in community if not always in communion with others. And so, we are perfect in this specific sense.<br />
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But what has attained its purpose? Is a flower perfect only after it has given its pollen to the bee or to the wind so that it may be reproduced? Or is a flower perfect only by virtue of being itself? The aesthete would favor the latter position, of course. For us mortal beings, perfection in this teleological sense is, as with the first sense, seemingly a judgment made by others--one made properly after we have passed. Yet that is but one side of the proverbial coin, no? Here, Aristotle might have answered the question in his <i>Ethics</i> (gosh, human beings were so productive before the age of the television, the Wii, and sundry other electronic sources of entertainment).<br />
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Eudaimonia--commonly translated as happiness, but more appropriately construed as human welfare or human flourishing--is the highest good for humans, even if the specific content of our flourishing or living well is disputed. But is a "good" the same thing as "purpose" or "end" or telos? Technically no, but an argument can be made that defining what flourishing and living well means for us as individuals is our telos, our purpose. We each discover what this means--and in our various modes of individual flourishing, we contribute to human flourishing. And so we become perfect in this sense.<br />
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But what of perfection in the second sense? Innocuously, it might instigate us to hyperbole: "This is the most beautiful or perfect flower or landscape or vista," or "this dinner is perfect." How many of us have done that? This might be the aesthete's cold or virus.<br />
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More dangerously, though, this conception of perfection is the most problematic, for defining it as that which is so
good that nothing could be better is the cell that introduces the
malignant disease of perfectionism. And each of us knows perfectionists: those possessive of, and possessed by, an insatiable need to create that which is beyond reproach, or who berates the self for not being X enough (X may be variously defined as skinny, beautiful, smart, sexy, kind, caring, worthy, creative, happy, optimistic, and sundry other judgments).<br />
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We berate ourselves for our too lumpy mashed potatoes, or the smudge on our painting, or the dried leaves on our prized plant before visitors are about to descend on one's garden. We can't write because we deem our prose not eloquent enough. We proclaim ourselves stupid. Perfectionism is healthy in small doses, but a fetid sore when we exceed our daily recommended dosage.<br />
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Perfectionism, it seems to me, is the antithesis of perfection, for it might be yet another example of an ideology. Ideologies, Hannah Arendt wrote, are "isms which to the satisfaction of their adherents can explain everything and every occurrence by deducing it from a single premise." To modify this a bit, perfectionists can explain every failing by measuring it against a single, idealized image or premise. We think we are Chopin, yet our piano playing can never quite match Chopin's. Well, I ask: "why the hell should it? Are you Chopin? No. He died a long time ago."<br />
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We are who we are, and that is perhaps the most difficult and challenging realization many of us must make during our lives. We are not Martha Stewart, try as I might (er, confession anyone?), nor are we Chopin. We are not the hottie gymnast (uh, pluralize that) on the US men's gymnastics Olympic team--so no, our body doesn't look that great (perhaps it would if we devoted 3/4 of our waking days to training), and no, we can't sleep with them (damn subconscious!). We are who we are.<br />
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Sure, we will fail at things and screw up at others. But we will excel in others--and even that in which we excel will sometimes challenge us. Only through challenges will we flourish.<br />
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Perfection, like purple, comes in so many shades. The point is to realize it.<br />
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I had always thought that the Rose of Sharon was a type of Hibiscus (<i>Hibiscus syriacus</i>, to be exact). A visit to most garden centers will confirm this, though the hibiscus in question eponymously, and quite erroneously, attributes its origins to Syria when in fact it hails from East Asia (and is in fact the national flower of South Korea).<br />
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But Rose of Sharon, I have learned, also refers to <i>Hypericum calycinum</i>, better known as St. John's Wort, which of course bears no resemblance or filial relation to the hibiscus. <br />
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So we have two different plants with the same common name. Curious, isn't it?<br />
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Sort of, but not really, because Rose of Sharon also has come to be attached to a crocus (this is confirmed as a mistranslation of the Hebrew כרכום<i>, karkōm, </i>which grew on the plains of Sharon along the Mediterranean Sea in what is today northern Israel). Confusion may have stemmed from the fact that the crocus bears some resemblance to a previously unidentified, onion-like flowering bulb, Chavatzelet HaSharon, חבצלת השרון, which has been authoritatively identified as <i>Pancratium maritimum</i>, a.k.a. Sand Lily or Sand Daffodil, pictured below.<br />
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And the name has been attached to a type of tulip.<br />
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And to a type of lily.<br />
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Confusion is nothing new.<br />
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This is why I try to learn the formal botanical (Latin) names for plants: because their common names mislead.<br />
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But then so too do the Latin names, as knowledge becomes more precise, and as knowledge is created.<br />
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(For comparison: I spied a Rose Mallow in the Chanticleer Pond Garden [toward the upper left of the photograph], but it rather gets lost. This is not a point of criticism, for Chanticleer is designed as an Impressionistic tapestry, each plant prominent only for its placement in and contribution to a wider order, a punctuation of color and texture; in the small garden, plants must be selected that both contribute to a wider order and that stand alone as exemplars of a moment or a vision.)<br />
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My friend and neighbor, Sharon, loved my Rose Mallow. In fact, she wanted it after we began her garden.<br />
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For a moment, I choked. How could I tell her that while Rose Mallow is surprisingly unfussy, she is the botanical equivalent of a bibber, our summer drinks on the porch notwithstanding? And my Sharon made it quite clear she needed low maintenance plants because she had a self-professed "black thumb."<br />
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I responded that I'd be happy to divide her once she became acclimated, but that she needed copious amounts of water.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiV-XJjq4DcbCWLzJf4614pv1FHsdSKwJWH8Iavzc28sfHG3ifTxp1XYaRriXo4KLJ-8Y0BgUttWyaJ-Co68qs1qYfM1WZ6XQ0t1CjrDxfOZBZOyK4Y558PiDxJIO4zed3OzRpOdqKxTP_6/s1600/DSCF7777.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiV-XJjq4DcbCWLzJf4614pv1FHsdSKwJWH8Iavzc28sfHG3ifTxp1XYaRriXo4KLJ-8Y0BgUttWyaJ-Co68qs1qYfM1WZ6XQ0t1CjrDxfOZBZOyK4Y558PiDxJIO4zed3OzRpOdqKxTP_6/s400/DSCF7777.JPG" width="400" /></a>And out came classic Sharon: "Girrrrlllllll.....you'd best keep her over there so I can look at her pretty! You be bothered, but I can't be. Just as well: I can look out at her everyday, so keep her growing. I get all the pretty and you all the work!"<br />
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And we laughed. <br />
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Last year, Rose Mallow reached approximately 12 feet with five stalks. This year, she sports seven stalks, at approximately the same height. And oh, the flowers she produces!<br />
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Our Sharon, our beautiful Sharon, took her leave late yesterday from this earthly existence. She...<i>died</i>. (Take note: how powerful are our words, but more so the tenses of our verbs.) She took her enormous heart, and her infinite goodness, out into other worlds.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQliiu0yujsiIbEpsUfmrGQGWlUTv2x05q_cyssGCiJ46bc9CVGx-K0xBD0tFkPl8lN83xatLea8EjOQkm0XLiaClwpjjH7FkbCetUlE5eu68pOqW2jSuH3JbrdbaVQeCzml9kGrC3Nq1K/s1600/DSCF7925.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQliiu0yujsiIbEpsUfmrGQGWlUTv2x05q_cyssGCiJ46bc9CVGx-K0xBD0tFkPl8lN83xatLea8EjOQkm0XLiaClwpjjH7FkbCetUlE5eu68pOqW2jSuH3JbrdbaVQeCzml9kGrC3Nq1K/s400/DSCF7925.JPG" width="400" /></a>And so my Rose Mallow becomes my inadvertent Rose of Sharon. Perhaps this is how these common names come to refer to a wide variety of plants: our proclivities and personal experiences, our understandings and our misunderstandings, shape our perceptions and we locate, create, linkages between otherwise disparate items. These common names create order where there was none, provide comfort and assurance in a world of uncertainty and confusion.<br />
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Genesis: the beginning. A beginning. Naming: Adam's contribution to that beginning. And where there are no names, or when names are altered at will for self-benefit, or when names lose their meaning...well, we need only think of Thucydides' account of the stasis at Corcyra to understand the peril the befalls us.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeteYxhDPWPkkDL1Y6WMVxqjP6EGmMbv7ZZ2lh5wTtw71XPMOr6roI3WUJZKtkKXn9gqj1fKXg7MJ8a1Rvi1Lu_HsPxlXhxZuewAMQdwAdvo5YijgGT4hxY6DbWIcOvcs76ZpCbekyux-I/s1600/DSCF7780.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeteYxhDPWPkkDL1Y6WMVxqjP6EGmMbv7ZZ2lh5wTtw71XPMOr6roI3WUJZKtkKXn9gqj1fKXg7MJ8a1Rvi1Lu_HsPxlXhxZuewAMQdwAdvo5YijgGT4hxY6DbWIcOvcs76ZpCbekyux-I/s400/DSCF7780.JPG" width="400" /></a>We all felt bereft last night, huddled together, remembering and laughing and sharing stories: our mortal way to grasp onto ethereal meaning. We have to reiterate names, name names, ascribe meaning and importance to them all over again...lest we lose them too. That is what we humans do: we attempt to regularize and stabilize; some might call this an exercise of proprietorship, but that misses the mark. We are all mortal in an immortal world. We seek a continuity otherwise lost to us ephemeral beings.<br />
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For me, Sharon--the woman, the name--will always be synonymous with strength and fortitude, not just of physicality, but of character and spirit. She did not tolerate intolerance or bigotry, rudeness or shenanigans. She rose above the fray and taught all of us, in her no-nonsense, genuine, and always sassy kind of way, how to be human.<br />
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She was a beacon of light, just as Rose Mallow is a mid- to late-summer floral beacon on our block. <br />
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Now, Rose Mallow stands alone, bereft of that other rose in our lives.<br />
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Rose Mallow extends into the sky, stretching forth, always there, a beacon, to guide the spirit of Sharon back to the place of her earthly life.<br />
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<i>** In memory of our beloved Sharon Thompson ** </i></div>
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